from an engagement in big sur to a private reception on family land

tonya & austin: wedding edition


Ever since their Big Sur coast engagement session (which I wrote about on this blog a few months ago), I was counting down the days to their wedding. 2025 was an insane year for me, and there was no better way to end it than documenting these two tie the knot in December. It was a beautiful day full of family, friends & true joy; I felt so welcomed by everyone, and so honored to have been there to capture such amazing memories. It was an emotional day for all attending, myself included, and I can't wait to see where married life takes these two. 🥹

 

Black and white photo sequence shows a couple in wedding attire walking down a hallway, creating a cinematic effect.
Black and white wedding photographs displayed in sequence showing reception moments and dancing at an elegant celebration.
A hand holds up a delicate white floral bouquet with greenery against a soft blue sky background.
A romantic wedding couple stands in a misty field at sunset as the bride's veil and dress flow in the wind.

start to finish


I love starting the day with getting ready,  which is truly the 'opening chapter' of wedding day. I move between rooms, capturing the memories of your sister-in-law steaming your veil, or sisters helping one another into their dresses. Music & laughter fill the house while everyone bustles about, excited (and a little nervous) for what's to come. As a bonus, exposure to the camera earlier in the day helps ease you into it so it's not as jarring for my camera-shy clients.


The word I always come back to when it comes to weddings is 'storytelling'. I want you to remember what the day felt like when looking back on your album, the love & joy & tears.


We start with the anticipation in the morning, the build-up to vows. For Tonya and Austin, they wanted their first look to be at the altar, but a pre-ceremony prayer was important to them. So, we set them up, eyes closed, holding hands at a corner while Austin prayed--the excitement builds, both eager to finally see one another. Then comes the overwhelming emotions of finally seeing each other as Tonya walks down the aisle, tears in the eyes of just about every person there (especially Austin). Finally, chapter 2 closes with the pure love & relief of finally being able to say 'I do'.  The remaining story follows the celebration, with two families becoming one, eager to party with the newlyweds. This is the story of your day, of your love--and the love others have for you, as well.

some amazing notes from this wedding:

  • Tonya's rosary was her 'something blue' + 'something borrowed' from her sister. The rosary itself belonged to their grandmother.
  • The ceremony was at the church they attend, while the reception was held at her brother's amazing property. The family banded together, creating their own decorations & set up which I always love.
  • For their cake toppers, they chose custom Legos of themselves & Tonya's two dogs (who also attended their engagement session seen here!)
  • Speaking of cake, since Tonya is GF, her aunt made the cake herself to make sure Tonya was accommodated on her special day. Again, the community here is incredible.
  • To honor Austin's Germanic heritage, they brought custom drinking horns with their name & wedding date on it--as well as some pretty incredible fur coats, featured in golden hour.
  • As an extra memory, they hired a painter who stayed throughout reception working on a portrait the couple got to take home. Shoutout to Jillian Williams, who you can find at her website here!

 

from getting ready...

 

Close-up detail of delicate white lace pattern on wedding dress fabric with intricate floral embroidery.
A row of wedding dresses displayed on hangers in a bridal boutique with natural lighting.
A white lace wedding dress hangs elegantly on a wooden fence outdoors with trees and greenery in the background.
A series of black and white photographs showing intimate moments in a home interior.
Black and white image showing people getting ready in a room with a decorative ceiling fan.
Group photo outdoors with people wearing matching green and white robes standing on grass with trees in background.
A group wearing matching green jackets poses together outdoors in a celebratory moment.
Two people share a joyful moment in a bright room with windows and houseplants.
A makeup artist applies cosmetics to someone in a pink top during a beauty preparation session.
A person wearing a black dress adjusts their hair while getting ready in front of a bright window.
Silhouettes of people sitting in a nursery room with angel wing decorations on the wall.
A living room decorated for Christmas with a lit tree and natural light streaming through windows.
A series of moody photos showing a person sitting behind sheer curtains in a dark room with dramatic lighting.
A white lace wedding dress hangs from a rustic barn door in a bright room with natural light streaming in.
A black and white photograph shows hands exchanging money in a dimly lit setting.
A group of friends laugh and embrace while enjoying drinks at a social gathering.
Black and white photo of two women in formal dresses standing together in a bright room.
A series of black and white wedding photos showing intimate moments between a bride and groom.
A bride in a lace wedding dress with a long train gets help with final adjustments in a bedroom.
A flowing white wedding dress with a cathedral-length veil creates an elegant silhouette against a wooden fence backdrop.
A bride in a white lace wedding dress and veil poses outdoors with a white floral bouquet in a garden setting.
Wedding preparation scene with people getting ready in a bright room with a white dresser and dreamcatchers on the wall.
Black and white photo of two people preparing a wedding veil in a sunlit room.
Black and white photo of a bride in a lace wedding dress with long veil standing by a wooden fence.

 

...to the chapel

 

A series of wedding photos showing a couple taking creative shots along a white wall and corridor.
Black and white wedding photo showing couple holding hands with bride holding floral bouquet.
A close-up shot of hands holding a rosary during a church ceremony.
A couple poses separately against a beige wall before their wedding ceremony, with the bride holding a bouquet.
A black and white wedding photo collage showing intimate moments between the couple in various church hallways and settings.
A sequence of emotional first look photos showing the groom's touching reaction during a wedding moment.
A series of black and white photographs showing details of a church interior.
Wedding ceremony guests seated in church pews during traditional service in elegant chapel with arched ceilings.
A long flowing veil trails down the aisle of a church during a wedding ceremony.
Wedding guests stand and raise their hands in celebration during a church ceremony.
Wedding guests line the aisle of a church sanctuary with hanging pendant lights and a stained glass window.
Two groomsmen in black suits with lime green ties stand at attention in a church.
A black and white photo showing the flowing train of a lace wedding dress against a dark background.
A couple in formal wedding attire holds hands during a traditional church ceremony.
Wedding guests seated in wooden church pews during a ceremony.
A row of people standing in church pews during a religious service.
A row of groomsmen in black suits and ties stand together during a formal wedding ceremony.
A speaker stands at a white podium during a church ceremony.
Wedding guests seated in church pews during an emotional ceremony.
A person in formal attire speaks at a white podium during a church service.
Wedding guests seated in wooden pews inside a church during a ceremony.
Wedding guests in formal attire seated in church pews with decorative lighting overhead.
A close-up view of a bride's white wedding dress train and veil trailing on the ground.
Wedding guests smile and watch the ceremony from church pews.
Wedding guests seated in church pews watching the ceremony with joyful expressions.
Black and white photo of wedding attendees standing in a church during the ceremony.
A black and white concert photograph shows a performer silhouetted against dramatic stage lighting during a live performance.
A crowd of people sits attentively in an auditorium during what appears to be a presentation or lecture.
Groomsmen in black suits with light green ties seated in a row at a church ceremony.
A wedding couple poses together in a series of romantic photos showing their special day.
A wedding ceremony takes place at the altar of a traditional church.
Black and white photo of a wedding ceremony in a church sanctuary.
A wedding ceremony takes place in a church with stained glass windows and traditional decor.
A couple stands at the altar during their wedding ceremony as the priest performs the marriage ritual.
A woman in black attire stands in a church during a ceremony.
A wedding ceremony unfolds in a church sanctuary with ornate religious artwork on the walls.
A wedding ceremony unfolds at the altar with religious artwork in the background.
A couple in wedding attire exchanges rings during an intimate ceremony at the altar.
A touching moment during the wedding ceremony as a ring bearer presents the rings.
A black and white close-up of hands exchanging rings during a wedding ceremony.
Close-up of hands during the ring exchange at a traditional church wedding ceremony.
Close-up shot of hands exchanging rings during a wedding ceremony.
A religious wedding ceremony takes place in a church with a painted mural of Jesus visible in the background.
Wide angle view of a church sanctuary filled with wedding guests during a ceremony.
A congregation of people sitting in wooden pews inside a church during a service.
Intimate moment captured showing wedding bouquet and embrace during ceremony.
A wedding ceremony takes place before religious murals in a church sanctuary.
A bride in a white wedding gown and veil kneels at a church altar with decorative marble columns and religious artwork.
Black and white photo of a bride in a flowing veil against church wall art.
A close-up black and white detail of a bride's lace wedding dress against marble flooring.
Side view of a church altar during a wedding ceremony in dramatic lighting.
A church altar features a dramatic mosaic backdrop with religious imagery during a wedding ceremony.
A row of arched doorways and columns in a church corridor with black and white architectural details.
A bride in a flowing white gown with a long cathedral veil kneels at the altar in a church sanctuary.
Religious murals and artwork decorate the walls of a church altar area during a wedding ceremony.
Close-up of wedding couple holding elegant white and green floral bouquets during ceremony.
Wedding guests stand in wooden church pews during a ceremony.
Wide shot of a wedding ceremony in a church with a sunburst mural at the altar.
A wedding ceremony taking place at an ornate church altar with religious artwork and floral arrangements.
A couple walks down the church aisle with a religious mural visible in the background.
Newlyweds walk down the church aisle as guests celebrate their union.
A joyful wedding celebration captured in black and white as newlyweds walk down the aisle after their ceremony.
Newlyweds celebrate with guests in a church venue featuring warm lighting and decorative sunburst wall designs.

 

couples portraits on private acres

 

Romantic wedding couple poses in a grassy field at sunset with a flowing white veil and black suit.
A romantic black and white wedding photo sequence showing a couple in an outdoor field setting.
A bride in a white lace gown holds a bouquet of white flowers while standing in a sunlit meadow.
A bride in a flowing lace wedding dress with long veil stands on a hillside in black and white photography.
A flowing cathedral veil trails behind a bride in a fitted white dress on a grassy hillside.
Black and white portrait of a bride in a lace gown holding a floral bouquet in a desert landscape.
A groom in a black suit with lime green tie stands in a grassy field on a misty day.
Close-up sequence of hands wearing wedding rings against a green background.
A groom in a black suit adjusts his tie while wearing a white boutonniere in a black and white photo.
Groomsmen in black suits pose playfully in a sunny field.
Artistic black and white portrait series of a groom in a classic suit against a minimalist landscape.
Wedding couple shares intimate moments under a large tree branch in a sunlit meadow.
A romantic winter wedding couple embraces under a tree at sunset in a misty field.
A romantic wedding couple shares an intimate moment under a tree branch at sunset.
Romantic newlyweds share tender moments under a tree branch at sunset in a grassy field.
Close-up view of hands holding a white bridal bouquet against a lace wedding dress in natural sunlight.
Newlyweds embrace and laugh together in a sunlit field during golden hour wedding photos.
A romantic wedding couple embraces on a hilltop during golden hour sunset.
A romantic black and white photo of newlyweds sharing their first kiss as a married couple.
Black and white sequence of a romantic wedding moment through a sheer veil.
Silhouetted couple shares romantic kiss during their wedding ceremony with dramatic backlighting.
A romantic wedding moment captured in a series of intimate embraces between a couple in formal attire.
Artistic black and white wedding photos showing a couple's silhouettes in a misty field.
An intimate moment between newlyweds captured during sunset with soft golden lighting.
Wedding couple walking in a field at sunset with bride's flowing veil trailing behind.
Wedding couple poses in a serene meadow with flowing white dress and dark suit.
Close-up of hands with wedding rings touching against a sunset-lit grassy background.
Delicate hands with an engagement ring shown against sunlit backdrop during a wedding ceremony.
Romantic sunset wedding photos in a field with flowing white dress and veil.
A romantic wedding couple stands together in a misty field at sunset with a bare tree in the background.
Newlywed couple embracing in golden sunlight with bride in white dress and groom in dark suit.
Tender moment between newlyweds as they embrace during sunset with bouquet in hand.
Intimate black and white portrait of a bride and groom in a tender moment.
A romantic wedding couple embraces in a dramatic dip pose against a golden sunset landscape.
Playful newlyweds run and laugh together across a golden sunset field.
Joyful wedding couple dances and celebrates in a sun-drenched field at golden hour.
Joyful wedding couple running and laughing together on a hillside.
A playful wedding couple runs through a grassy field with the bride's veil flowing in the wind.
A couple in wedding attire walks along a scenic hillside path during golden hour sunset.
Joyful wedding couple shares a playful moment on a grassy hillside at sunset.
Intimate moment between newlyweds as groom kisses bride's hand during sunset outdoor photo session.
Black and white portrait of newlyweds sharing a candid laughing moment.
A dramatic dip kiss between newlyweds on a misty hilltop during golden hour.
Wedding rings displayed on delicate white lace floral fabric.
Wedding couple poses on hillside with bride's lace dress train beautifully displayed in sunset light.
A couple shares a romantic kiss at sunset in a scenic outdoor location with golden light streaming through the background.
Black and white photos capture romantic moments between newlyweds in a countryside setting.
Newlyweds dance together on a hilltop during golden hour.
A couple in wedding attire embraces on a misty hilltop during sunset while a photographer captures the moment.
Black and white photo of newlyweds walking together across a hilltop meadow.
Happy newlyweds sharing a laugh together on a hilltop during golden hour.
Black and white detail shot of bride and groom's feet on grass.
Close-up detail of lace wedding dress hem and boots on grass.
Wedding shoes detail shot showing bride and groom's footwear on grass.
An intimate moment between newlyweds captured in soft golden light on a grassy hillside.

 

details & cocktails

 

White frosted wedding cake with miniature decorative figures arranged along the curved top edge.
Close-up macro photography sequence showing small objects on a textured white surface in dark lighting conditions.
Wedding cake with white frosting and small decorative elements displayed against dark background.
Wedding rings rest elegantly on a black surface surrounded by delicate flowers in a moody black and white composition.
Close-up shot of a delicate rose gold wedding ring with intricate details against a dark background.
Wedding rings rest on a textured white surface with bottles and decor in the background.
A gold wedding ring delicately balanced on white and burgundy calla lily petals in an artistic macro shot.
Close-up of elegant wedding rings with diamond details against a textured background.
A white frosted cake on a decorative plate photographed in a dark setting.
Small toy figurines stand atop a snowy white surface with dark bottles in the background.
A tray of elegant dessert shooters with layered cream and toppings being arranged on a dark surface.
Wooden wedding guest book signs with elegant calligraphy text displayed on a light blue surface.
Black and white handwritten signatures on paper show multiple overlapping cursive writing samples.
Behind the scenes photo setup with lighting equipment and props against a white backdrop.
Small wooden heart-shaped name tags arranged for a wedding celebration.
Camera equipment and lighting setup for a professional photo shoot.
Outdoor wedding gathering at a venue with palm trees and Spanish-style architecture in the background.
Wedding celebration at sunset with guests mingling on an outdoor patio.
Black and white candid photos of people celebrating at an outdoor event.
Wedding reception table setup with framed photos and writing materials in blue tones.
Wedding reception setup with white tablecloths and decorative elements against a light background.
Gold-framed mirror displaying wedding seating arrangements on white paper against a dark backdrop.
Blurred black and white architectural photograph showing abstract geometric shapes and shadows.
Hands signing a wedding guestbook on a white surface during a reception.
Close-up view of someone writing in a guest book with pens scattered on the table.
Guests signing a wedding guestbook on a white tablecloth with pens.
Large white event tent interior with round tables and chairs set up for a reception.
Wedding guests writing messages in a guestbook at an outdoor venue.
Black and white image of guests writing messages in a wedding guestbook.
Black and white image of handwritten notes and wedding reception details on a table.
Artist working at an easel on an outdoor terrace with umbrellas and scenic views in the background.
Close-up view of handwritten messages on what appears to be a guest book or card.
Wedding guests celebrating outdoors during golden hour with palm trees in the background.
Outdoor gathering of guests in dark attire with sunlit agave plants in foreground.
Panoramic view of event attendees standing behind desert plants in outdoor setting.
Outdoor wedding venue with stone pavers and scenic mountain views on a clear sunny day.
Large paella pans cooking traditional Spanish rice dishes at an outdoor event.

 

(some) family moments

 

Two groomsmen in black suits with green ties stand together on a brick patio outside a white building.
Two grooms in black tuxedos share a joyful moment together during their wedding against a white wall with arched window.
A black and white collage of wedding photos showing formal attire and outdoor settings.
Two people in formal black attire pose playfully on a stone patio near white walls and garden shrubs.
Three people in formal black attire stand together on a stone patio during a wedding event.
Two people in formal attire stand together smiling outside a building with a decorative lamp post and shrubs.
Two people in formal attire stand together on a tiled patio with arched windows and greenery in the background.
Black and white photo of people gathered on a porch of a house with outdoor lighting and bushes visible.
A couple shares an intimate kiss while standing against a white exterior wall near greenery and outdoor lighting.
A couple in formal evening wear stands together on a stone patio beside a white stucco wall and garden.
Two people in formal black attire stand together at a wedding venue with white walls and outdoor lighting.
A couple in formal black attire poses together for a series of romantic photos on a paved patio with white walls.
Wedding party members in black formal attire pose together outdoors against a white building wall at dusk.
A series of black and white wedding photos showing intimate moments between a couple at their celebration.
Wedding party poses together on grassy hillside during golden hour with flowing white dress and formal attire.
Wedding party poses outdoors in formal attire with bridesmaids in black dresses and groomsmen in black suits.
A bride in a white lace gown poses with bridesmaids wearing black dresses in a sunny outdoor setting.
A bridal party in black dresses and white wedding gown pose together in natural sunlight.
A joyful wedding party poses together with bridesmaids in black dresses surrounding the bride in white holding a bouquet.
A bridal party in black dresses and a white wedding gown pose together outdoors with joyful expressions.
A group of women in black and white dresses pose together outdoors for wedding photos.
Bridesmaids in black dresses gather around bride in white gown holding bouquet during outdoor wedding celebration.
Wedding party poses together on a grassy hillside with vineyard views at sunset.
Wedding party stands in a vineyard with bridesmaids wearing elegant black dresses alongside the bride in a flowing white gown.
A series of black and white candid wedding photos showing joyful moments and embraces between wedding party members.
Two people in wedding attire pose together in an outdoor garden setting with scenic views.
Black and white photo of a tender moment between bride and bridesmaid during an outdoor wedding celebration.
Wedding party poses together in elegant church setting with ornate altar and floral arrangements.
Close-up detail of white wedding bouquet and formal dresses during outdoor ceremony.
Black and white photo of a wedding bouquet with orchids and ribbons held against formal attire with a rosary visible.
Bridal party members share joyful moments together outdoors during a vineyard wedding celebration.
Two people pose together outdoors in wedding attire with one wearing a flowing white dress with long train.
A happy couple shares joyful moments together on their wedding day in an outdoor garden setting.

 

& of course, the party

 

Couple dancing at a wedding reception with bride in white lace dress and groom in black suit.
A couple performs a romantic dip dance move during their wedding reception under a white tent.
A romantic black and white photo of a couple sharing their first dance at a wedding reception under a tent.
People dancing and socializing at a dimly lit party or nightclub event.
Wedding guests dancing and celebrating together on a dimly lit dance floor at an evening reception.
People dancing and celebrating at a nightclub with green lighting effects creating an energetic party atmosphere.
A dark, intimate dance scene shows silhouettes of people moving together on a crowded dance floor.
Wedding reception dance floor filled with guests enjoying the celebration.
A guest in an emerald velvet dress dances joyfully at an evening celebration.
Dark party scene with people dancing and celebrating in a crowded space.
A newlywed couple celebrates with drinks at their wedding reception under a tent.
Wedding guests dance and celebrate on a dimly lit dance floor under a tent.
A dark silhouette dances energetically against a blurred party background.
A party guest in white shirt and tie dances enthusiastically under tent lighting.
Party guests dance energetically at a nighttime wedding reception.
Couples dancing together at a dimly lit wedding reception with dramatic lighting and shadows.
Wedding guests dancing and celebrating on a dark dance floor with atmospheric lighting.
Wedding guests dance and celebrate at a dimly lit reception party.
Guests enjoying themselves on a dark dance floor at a wedding celebration.
Wedding guests dancing and celebrating on a dimly lit dance floor.
Guests dancing and celebrating at a dimly lit wedding reception.
Partygoers enjoying themselves in a dark venue with ambient lighting.
Party guests in dark attire enjoying refreshments at an evening celebration.
People enjoying themselves while dancing at an indoor evening celebration event.
Partygoers laughing and having fun in dark formal attire at a nighttime event.
Wedding party members embrace and laugh during an evening celebration.
Guests dancing and laughing together at a lively indoor celebration.
People dancing and mingling at a lively wedding reception.
Person in a white dress dancing and moving at a nighttime celebration.
Crowd of people dancing and moving in a dark nightclub setting.
A couple dances and laughs together during their wedding reception celebration.
Friends sharing hugs and laughter at a nighttime celebration.
Partygoers socializing in a dark reception venue with festive lighting.
Dancers performing energetic moves on a dark dance floor with colored lights.
A bride in a white dress dances gracefully at her wedding reception.
A couple shares an intimate dance moment under dim reception lighting.
Crowd of party-goers dancing and enjoying themselves at a dimly lit indoor event venue.
Newlyweds dance together surrounded by guests at their evening reception.
Wedding guests in formal attire celebrate on the dance floor with phones raised.
Partygoers dancing and having fun at a nighttime wedding celebration.
Intimate dance floor moments captured in black and white at an evening wedding celebration.
Wedding guests dancing and embracing on a dark dance floor.
Guests celebrating and dancing enthusiastically at a wedding reception.
A couple in wedding attire cuts their white wedding cake together during their reception celebration.
A sequence of playful wedding photos showing a couple sharing cake during their reception celebration.
A couple in wedding attire share a playful moment while singing into a microphone at their reception.
A series of candid wedding photos capturing a couple feeding each other cake in a fun and messy moment.
A bride and groom playfully share wedding cake during their reception celebration.
A romantic sequence of wedding photos showing a couple sharing intimate kisses and embraces during their special day.
A romantic couple in formal wedding attire shares an intimate dance moment during their wedding reception.

 

congratulations -

 

T & A <3